Hey… Can you think that feeling good with all people around you are going well is the happinest way? even you are not the best of them…..but you feel that have to get involved to contribute of it. Yes i feel it. I have tried to support the people around me to go ahead and step bigger than before, and now i look at them. They can smile after they disconcerted before. And it all fun in my feeling. They can run faster than me now…, i loose but i have to get involved assist them. And eureka… without any doubt and without admission from the people, i feel good, indeed happy with their big step.
And before, i didn’t like that. Before i felt all things like competition. We had to do the best and looked at the other like an enemy. I have spirit to be a winner everyday, every moment, and every competition. To be next step to success. Defeat the other competitor likes a warrior. And what i feel if being a looser? it could be terrified… i have been there and have acted liket that. You know that there are people said that “Live is Competition”. Woooww… how i could enjoy this live if almost everyday, every moment, every intercation, must act to be competition. Indeed they althought said that “Since before human born, they had to compete in the mother’s womb”. Maybe it’s true…. it’s fire you to defeat the problem. But what i mean is you are not the only one on the earth. You are just one soul in the middle of millions hundreds soul on the earth. You had been determined by the God to born on the earth. (and i thing you’ve forgotten already competed in your mom’s womb… hahaha 🙂 ) , And after that just step in your way had been decided… (Step is active work, and The way had been decided is resignation. The combination of it, i call it tawakkal 🙂 ). So why you so sad and terrified with the winner surrounding you. Believe that all the things are controlled well by The Creator.
تُولِجُ اللَّيْلَ فِي الْنَّهَارِ وَتُولِجُ النَّهَارَ فِي اللَّيْلِ وَتُخْرِجُالْحَيَّ مِنَ الْمَيِّتِ وَتُخْرِجُ الَمَيَّتَ مِنَ الْحَيِّ وَتَرْزُقُ مَنتَشَاء بِغَيْرِ حِسَابٍ
“Alloh enter the night into the day and the day into the night. Alloh remove the living from the dead, and remove the dead from the living. And Alloh give sustenance to whom Alloh will without reckoning (limit) ” Ali Imron : 37
So, never feel sad with other people success. Likes Mourinho said, being the special one. Each of you is the special one. You will win the battle, or sometimes be a looser. But you are still the special one. Just smile and feel happy with every winner surrounding you, will give a long last time happiness. And not every soul worthy and capable to do this. Just the real the special one, likes Mourinho.